Is it possible to rekindle a relationship with an ex?

It's not really your fault: While you probably broke up for a very legit reason, your desire to rekindle an old flame is pretty normal. "We are wired for attachment and also for new experiences," says licensed marriage and family therapist David Klow, owner of Skylight Counseling Center in Chicago.

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Then, why an ex is hot and cold?

Your ex might be in a new relationship, but is still texting you. If your avoidant ex is hot and cold, it may be because they're already in a new relationship and the way that relationship goes, governs how they talk to you. When their relationship is going well, you don't seem to exist for them. Regarding this, should i start talking to my ex again? The rule of thumb is to wait 30 days before you speak to your ex once again. If you were together for a very long time and you break up, you may need to extend this to six weeks. At the most, 2-2.5 months is how long the no-contact phase should go.

Keeping this in consideration, what are good first date ideas?

First Date Ideas Just do dinner! There's a reason it's a classic: With no distractions other than something delicious, dinner is a great way to bond with a new potential partner. Cook together. Go for a stroll. Walk shelter dogs. Get breakfast. Make a sweet deal. Bust out the board games. Hit up an arcade. Can you have a casual relationship with your ex? When you're living with your ex, the lines between casual sex and sex with feelings are usually pretty blurred. For example, you could come to an agreement that you're both going to sleep with other people and the casual sex you are having together is just for fun with no feelings attached.

And another question, how should i dress to meet my ex?

How long should I wait to ask my ex back out? Breakups are hard, but even though it can feel like reaching back out to your ex will fix things, Brenner advises waiting a while before doing so - at least a couple of months.

People also ask should i ask if my ex is okay?

If you and your ex cut all ties, even mutual friends, and many months have passed and you're truly clueless as to what's going on in their life, then it's OK to send a casual text asking them how they are. But only if it's out of genuine concern and not because you want to start something back up again... or gloat.