Should I wait for him or move on?

It's ok to wait, if you're open to meeting other. In these situations, it's perfectly ok to wait a while for the other person to become available or make a move on you. Until then however, you should really be open to meet other people. Keep going out, flirt, chat with people when out at get-togethers etc.

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Then, when should you hold on and let go?

When you hold on out of fear of the unknown. When you sense you are holding onto something meant to be let go. When the thought of being free of the situation feels expansive. When you believe in a better life for yourself. You can also ask is it true if you let someone go they will come back? Only fate can determine whether a relationship was meant to be. So, if you let someone go, they will come back if that's your destiny. For those of us who don't believe in determinism, this explanation does not ring true. A better interpretation is that you cannot force someone to love you.

How do you know if you are meant to be?

You accept, and genuinely love each other as you are. You are proud of each other, and want what is best for them. There is mutual appreciation, respect and understanding. You have a connection with each other that goes beyond what is superficial. Will true love return? It's important to realize that just because we may never regain the feelings we once had, it does not mean we won't ever regain the ability to love in some capacity or another. While your life may never be the same after falling out of love, that doesn't mean it will always be worse.

Why is it so hard to let go?

Letting go may be extremely difficult for you especially if you have low self-worth. You may be on the people who talk bad about themselves. Since you have low self-worth, once you experience something that you need to let go, you tend to feel guilty about it, thus blaming yourself for what happened. What to say to someone you love but can't be with? I want to thank you for making me the person I thought I couldn't be. You literally introduced me to me, and I'll always cherish that. I'm sorry I couldn't be as inspiring for you. I tried to keep you going when you were down and confused in life, and I'm sorry I couldn't.