What does Justice mean in love?

If you have treated others with integrity and kindness and not been treated well in return in relationships, Justice in a love tarot reading can indicate that this imbalance is about to be corrected with the loving partner you deserve coming into your life.

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Regarding this, what's the difference between judgement and observation?

Judgements are subjective and positive or negative. Observation however evokes learning and are objective. When we share an observation there is no assignment of good or bad, right or wrong . Correspondingly, how do you respond to a judgemental person? Don't take anything personally. This is a difficult one for most people. Be compassionate. Nasty, judgmental people are made, not born. Look at it as a life lesson. Don't sink to their level. Look beyond the obvious. See them as if they were a child. Reframe it. Have an attitude of gratitude.

How do I stop being so Judgemental in a relationship?

Here's the DUAL method: Don't pass judgment. If you find yourself being judgmental, stop yourself. Understand. Instead of judging someone for what he's done or how he looks, try instead to understand the person. Accept. Once you begin to understand, or at least think you kind of understand, try to accept. Love. Consequently, why is judging good? Of course asserting your feelings of authority via judging others means the other person will close down to you in order to protect themselves. So if something in you is afraid of intimacy, then judgements might be your secret way of keeping everyone at arm's length. 5. It helps you feel better about yourself.

Then, why being judgemental is not good?

Making unhelpful and overly critical comments is not only a manifestation of our own insecurities and self-esteem, but it can make our insecurities and self-esteem even worse. Research shows that being judgmental of others can negatively affect your self-esteem more than any outside force. What does it mean to judge someone? to form, give, or have as an opinion, or to decide about something or someone, especially after thinking carefully: to express a bad opinion of someone's behaviour, often because you think you are better than them: You have no right to judge other people because of what they look like or what they believe.

Consequently, what to do when you are being judged?

Feeling judged by people you meet Manage underlying social anxiety. Practice being okay with being judged. Consider how often you judge others. Notice the negative assumptions that you're making. Ask yourself if you know for a fact someone is judging you. Come up with compassionate answers to your inner critic.